Monday, March 23, 2015

Adoption/Prayer Update from the Lemons'

I have a tendency to say too much...which could mean this blog post won't stay up long.  I'm not really sure what I can say and what I'm suppose to keep quiet, but honestly, we're asking the Lord for favor and hope you'll join us.  For quite some time Amy and I have been asking our family, friends, and church to join us in praying for a lingering court case in one of our adoptions.  We're asking for prayer again today, but wanted to let you in on what's going on....at least partially.

Our adoption with 'I' is going quickly and smoothly so far.  God has been so faithful to walk us through.  He's legally ours, and we are hoping to travel next month to meet him and file some paperwork with immigration.  He can't come home yet, but we are getting close.  We'd definitely appreciate prayers as that journey begins to unfold.  To meet our son for the first time, and turn and leave him half way across the globe will not be an easy task, but we really believe it's a step we need to take.  We're just waiting on an Embassy appointment!

Our other adoption hasn't been quite as smooth.  We have been in process with 'A' for about a year and a half now, and it's still not completed.  Last year our agency allowed us to move him into a different orphanage for a transition period.  And for just a moment, let me say how incredible our adoption agency is!  They have more integrity in their pinky finger than I've seen in most agencies through and through.  They've walked with us, been transparent when we've all made mistakes, and have even stopped taking money until things are settled.  One of our ladies in particular has become what I would consider a close friend.  Joelle talks about her often, and we are so grateful for her.

The transition was a decision we (Amy and I) made on our own.  When 'A' was sent into this orphanage it seemed like a huge blessing from heaven.  We were getting updates, and a few families were contributing to really make this a great home for our kids.  We were committed to doing everything within our power to make this home a safe place for children for years to come, even after our boys were home.  Since that moment we've had a person that has come in and done everything she can to wreck our adoption.  She's made false claims about our son that have resulted in a court battle.  Without going into a lot of detail, tomorrow is supposedly our last court date where the court will make a final decision.

I want to make sure skeptics fully understand that we understand adoption.  Adoption was never the plan of Creation.  Adoption is a beautiful redemption from the fall of sin.  The fact that a child cannot stay with his/her biological family was never in God's plan.....it's a pretty good reminder of what sin has done to the beauty God created.  Adoption is redemption from brokenness.  I remember standing with Joelle's biological father two years ago.  He was a good man.  He was a good father that sacrificed everything so his child could live.  He's not a bad man.  We pray for him.  We talk about him and his family.  He sacrificed his own desires for the life of his child.  It was messy, ugly, and wasn't the highlight of his life...adoption is sacrifice.  It's sacrifice for everyone involved....especially our children.  If a child has a biological family member capable of caring for him/her, Amy and I will always 100% support them!  But our children's families can't, and have made very clear that their situations were dire without adoption.  A's biological family has made very clear what their desires are, and we are a part of them.

So we are asking our family and friends to join us in powerful prayer today/tonight as a judge we've never met sits in a court we've never seen, and rules on a case that will ultimately change our lives forever, one way or the other.  If court goes our way, the plan is to hold both of our boys on our trip next month.  If it doesn't we're not really sure where it leaves us, because we don't have access to A.

This has all been a beautiful reminder of how out of control our lives are.  That's good to remember from time to time.  God is good....really good.  And we trust 100% that regardless of the decision made tomorrow, or even if it is put off for the millionth time, God's plan is always best.  But we also know that a God that created all ex nihilo (out of nothing) is more than capable os squashing the enemy and showing us favor tomorrow.  We believe that God is capable of redeeming the people that have caused us the most heartache over the past six months.

And that's what we'd ask.  Pray for those that are doing wrong.  Pray that the Lord would grab their hearts and show grace in a way that draws them to His goodness.  So many moments I've wanted to pray destruction and evil on them....but God has shown me that even our enemies need grace.  I'm praying for her today.  If she's reading this, know that our family is praying that God would show you His grace!  Pray that the courts would do what's right tomorrow....we believe we've been very transparent and done exactly what God has called us to.  We, and our agency, have shown integrity and refused to lower our morals/ethics.  We have done right.  Pray that He would reveal this tomorrow and we'd get closure.

And last....pray for the hundreds of children that are stuck right now and unable to come to the United States.  The reason is really not important.  One of our families lost their son last week due to preventable causes, and we believe enough is enough.  We're hoping the red tape will be cut this week, and we'll gain a few hundred beautiful new citizens!

Lots to pray about, and we hope you'll join us as we rely on the true Judge that doesn't needs courts and governments to get things done!

21 comments:

  1. Praying for your family and all those children! God is great...all the time. All the time....God is great.

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  2. Praying, praying, PRAYING. God is good all the time.

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  3. praying for you while we walk a similar but different road. good reminder, in general, to pray for those doing wrong!

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  4. I'm praying for your boys. I have been going through some struggles and holding them in. You just reminded me that there are more important things going on that need prayer. Thank you and I hope for the right outcome from the judge.

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  5. Praying for your family, the judge, and all those children waiting too long for their forever families!

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  6. Praying for your growing family! I don't know how I wasn't following your personal blog, I read it often! But now I am! :)

    Ashley
    The Mrs. & Co.

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  7. Praying for your sweet family, the judge, and for those who control the outcomes.

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  8. Prayers! GOD BLESS you and your kind hearts on this journey.

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  9. Praying! May God put blessings in place to help you and all involved!!

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  10. Praying! We too have had nightmares along the way we seem to be treading through and it's not fun at all! God is sovereign and I am so thankful that He has His arms of protection around all these children!
    I think you might be taking some care packages to my kids when you travel. I received an email and I think I've connected the dots. We were just there visiting for our second time in January and we are so excited to be able to send new photos of us with the kids to them. Thank you for doing this!
    Once again,
    WE ARE PRAYING!!

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  11. I am joining my prayers with yours. May the Lord sort out the details... and may everything fall into place with God's grace... All the time, God IS good!

    Kim
    Finding JOY in 6th Grade

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  12. We are in the middle of trying to adopt a little girl too and things just keep dragging out. As I pray for our "A" tonight, we will definitely pray for yours too! I have followed you guys through the adoption of Joelle and I cannot wait to see your 2 new little ones. Keep the faith guys. Prayers from Okahoma!
    ~Karen

    Karen Rowland

    Adventures With Firsties

    karenrowland112677@yahoo.com

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  13. Praying for you all. Sending my love, Amy!

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  14. Prayers for you and your family. I so hope to hear that you've held those boys in your arms by your next visit. Thanks for sharing your story.
    A Differentiated Kindergarten

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  15. Praying for you. WISDOM, POWER, and TRUTH.

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  16. Sending up prayers for you all. I hope the judge rules in your favor so you can bring your boys home!!

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  17. Sending you all so much love and many, many prayers!

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  18. Praying for your sweet family.

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  19. Sending prayers for your beautiful family!

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  20. May the Lord bless you and keep you, your family, and the littles of Congo in the palm of his hands, all the days in each of your lives! Sending love and blessings in your journey!

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